Setting Sail for Adventure
As Emily Spice slips into a stunning black corset and stockings, she playfully turns to her husband Darren and asks what he thinks of her outfit for their night out. Her sultry attire promises an exciting evening, and Darren’s eager smile reveals just how much he appreciates her look before they head out to meet another couple for dinner.
Onboard an adults-only cruise, Emily and Darren are ready to experience a night of indulgence. After savoring a delectable meal of steak and oysters at a fine dining restaurant, they anticipate a thrilling end to their evening—one that includes mind-blowing sex not just with each other but also with the new friends they’ve just made.
This is no ordinary cruise; it’s a luxurious getaway designed exclusively for those seeking wild and adventurous encounters. To keep track of their passionate pursuits, Emily and Darren have even created a meticulous spreadsheet detailing who they plan to hook up with and when, alongside a timetable of the tantalizing parties they will attend throughout the week.
All the Essentials for Pleasure
Tattoo artist and content creator Emily, 31, hailing from Croydon, South London, shares her excitement: “These trips are the epitome of sensuality, sailing around the Caribbean surrounded by thousands of like-minded individuals eager for adventure. Everything is readily available—from free condoms to designated playrooms and even seminars focused on enhancing your sexual skills, like mastering roleplay or discovering the elusive G-spot!”
Organized by Bliss Cruises, a reputable US company, cabin prices vary significantly—from £2,000 per person for a cozy inside cabin to an extravagant £15,000 for a premium suite equipped with a personal butler, a hot tub on the balcony, and even a baby grand piano.
Emily, who has been in a loving relationship with Darren, 33, for a decade and married for five years, recalls their first seven-day cruise experience in April 2023: “We were completely amazed! We ended up sleeping with ten different couples in addition to joining in multiple orgies. Before marrying Darren, I had only been with one other man—now, I’ve been with 109! Our first cruise was exhilarating; we meticulously planned our breakfast, lunch, and dinner with various couples, indulging in passionate encounters afterward. Initially, we were so thrilled by the experience that we didn’t pace ourselves, but now we’ve learned to ration our energy to keep up with the excitement.”
“We’re completely comfortable with each other, and witnessing each other’s passion adds to the thrill,” she adds.
Embracing the Swinging Lifestyle
Emily and Darren represent just one of countless couples embracing the swinging lifestyle on these specially designed cruises. The minimum age for participants is 21, yet Emily mentions chatting with a 92-year-old gentleman at one of the events.
These cruises, which began in 2008, are gaining immense popularity, with Bliss Cruises having organized two successful voyages around the Caribbean in the past year alone. Demand is so high that both trips were sold out, with three more scheduled for the upcoming year. Another company, Temptation Cruises, offers one annual cruise, promoting its events as opportunities for steamy escapades, featuring exclusive playrooms and clothing-optional hotspots that keep the heat rising from dusk until dawn.
With ships accommodating up to 5,600 passengers, Emily and Darren find themselves mingling with swingers from various nationalities, including Australians and Germans.
Organizing the Fun Ahead
“Typically, we pay around £2,000 each for our cabin, but during our first trip, we splurged for a sea view and balcony—only to realize it wasn’t worth it since we barely spent time there,” Emily notes. The excitement starts even before passengers board the ship, with many couples joining a Facebook group to flirt and establish connections prior to sailing.
On the night before departure, guests usually attend a lively party at a nearby hotel. “We only disembarked once during the cruise because we were too worn out from all the sex we were having!” Emily laughs.
Once aboard, the fun continues with orgies in private cabins or at designated ‘playrooms’—special areas set aside for group encounters. One of these areas is a conference room by day, while another is a solarium by the pool.
Reflecting on her first cruise experience, Emily describes it as “exhausting yet exhilarating.” She explains, “We were relatively new to this lifestyle, having discovered it four years ago at a naturist resort. When we meet potential partners, we exchange glances and a subtle nod to indicate our interest. If we’re not interested, we’ll simply say we’re going for a walk and carry on with our evening.”
Rules and Excitement Onboard
There are strict regulations in place onboard: drugs are strictly forbidden, mobile phones can only be used within cabins, and taking photos or videos is prohibited. Any guest breaking these rules risks being removed from the ship at the next port.
“In our experience, we’ve never encountered drugs onboard—after all, we’re there to enjoy ourselves, and drugs can hinder performance. However, it’s no secret that the ship is often stocked with Viagra!” Emily shares. “While some rules are rigid, such as designated areas for sexual activity, it’s not uncommon to spot couples sneaking a quick rendezvous in the elevator or restaurant.”
Each morning, guests receive updated guidelines based on the day’s schedule. For instance, when docked at a port, nudity is prohibited on deck.
With mobile phones banned, passengers have come up with creative alternatives, like handing out personalized ‘sl*t cards’ featuring their cabin numbers. They also decorate their cabin doors with enticing photos of themselves to attract potential partners. Emily and Darren even attach a whiteboard to their door, inviting like-minded couples to leave messages and their cabin numbers—a discreet signal that they’re open to ‘playing’ later on.
Playful Competition and Flirty Crew
While nudity is allowed in certain areas like the pool and solarium, proper attire is required for meals. Emily explains, “If the crew deems that you aren’t adequately covered, they hand you a towel to sit on or wrap around you. Everyone vies to get the ‘towel of shame,’ and cheers erupt when someone is awarded one! We also enjoy flirting with the crew, who, while not allowed to partake in the festivities, certainly witness the excitement.”
Celebrating Love and Liberation
Swinging isn’t limited to dedicated cruises. Amy Barr, 42, and her husband Ben, 41, embarked on their first non-monogamous adventure aboard an adult-only cruise. Living in Margate, Kent, they were curious about the swinging lifestyle and decided to explore it in April 2022.
“We started chatting with other couples and shared a few kisses, which opened the door for us. By August, we were fully immersed in the scene, attending sex parties back home. We even organized trips on other ‘vanilla’ cruises with fellow swingers we met online, as specialized cruises were booked solid,” Amy shares. “One of our highlights was celebrating our 19th wedding anniversary with an orgy, during which our travel representative kindly brought us champagne and cake right in the middle of our festivities—it was quite a sight!”
Amy emphasizes how easy it is to identify fellow swingers as soon as they board. “You can spot them right away; it’s like having a sixth sense. Often, they’ll wear clothing with upside-down pineapples as a subtle hint.”
Expert Insight on Non-Monogamous Relationships
By Sally Land, The Sun’s Sex and Relationship Expert
Inviting a third party into your relationship can seem thrilling—a chance to explore together, share new experiences, and ignite passion. However, from my correspondence, it’s clear that for many couples, the reality can lead to heartbreak and conflict. Jealousy and insecurity often emerge when an extra person enters the dynamic, leading to emotional turmoil.
While some couples can successfully navigate open relationships, it requires a foundation of trust, exceptional communication, and a clear understanding of boundaries. Instead of jumping into swinging, I encourage couples to strengthen their sexual connection. If things feel stale, there are numerous ways to rejuvenate intimacy without risking the relationship. My guide, “50 Ways To Spice Up Your Sexual Relationship,” offers practical advice.
It’s often said that “two’s company, three’s a crowd,” and there’s truth to that. If you have concerns weighing on your mind, feel free to reach out to us at [email protected] for a personalized response from me and my counseling team.
Having met Emily and Darren at a sex party in England in August 2022, Amy, a professional dominatrix, and Ben, a wind turbine technician, took the plunge and tried a ‘swingers cruise’ in November last year. “Upon boarding, we received a welcome bag filled with condoms and lubricant, and we never looked back,” Amy recalls. “The playroom was often packed, but it was fantastic when we managed to get in—huge beds and a staff that ensured everything was consensual and secure.”
Unforgettable Experiences Await
“The highlight of our trip was being invited to an extravagant orgy in one of the luxurious suites, which was nothing short of spectacular. There were about 40 participants, and the host even brought a bondage chair onboard—it was truly an unforgettable experience.”
Meanwhile, Emily and Darren eagerly await their next cruise at the end of April, regularly swapping partners with Amy and Ben in the interim. “People often assume that swingers do it because they’ve lost interest in each other, but that’s entirely untrue. Our connection is strong, and I believe a solid foundation helps mitigate jealousy,” Emily emphasizes. “Even on the cruise, we engage in sexual activities together almost daily, discussing our escapades while in the throes of passion—it’s a form of bonding for us. And our experiences are never disappointing!”
With a playful smile, she adds, “As we disembark, we often see families waiting to board for their own cruise. We can’t help but worry they might stumble upon a stray sex toy and just hope the crew is quick to tidy things up!”
